
Welcome to the Confidently Therapy Blog!
For high-achieving moms ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Here, you’ll find the tools and support to break free from overwhelm, ditch perfectionism, and feel confident and present in your life again.
Why Do I Get Anxious Randomly? 3 Compassionate Steps to Cope With Crippling Anxiety for Worried Moms
Feeling anxious for no reason? You're not alone. This post unpacks why anxiety can hit out of nowhere—and offers three powerful steps to cope without self-blame or pressure to "fix" it. Perfect for high-achieving, emotionally aware women ready to feel more calm, confident, and present.
The Hidden Cost of Burned Out Motherhood—and How to Find Balance
Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart—it often looks like keeping it all together. If you’ve built your life around being reliable, capable, and selfless, it can feel impossible to admit you're tired… or even notice it. This post explores why high-achieving, deeply caring women often miss the signs of burnout—and how to begin rewriting the story.
3 Reasons You Can't Relax as a Working Mom
You want to be present, but you're so tired—and even when you get a minute to relax, your mind just won’t turn off. Sound familiar? In this post, I’m diving into why rest feels so hard (even when you crave it), the real reason your brain resists slowing down, and how to start feeling more relaxed—without needing a spa day or a silent house.
3 Ways to Be a More Present Mom and Enjoy Motherhood More
Ever get to the end of the day and wonder if you were really with your kids, even though you were home all day? If you're craving more connection and less guilt, this post will help you feel more present, grounded, and intentional—without overhauling your life.
Breaking Free from the ‘Shoulds’: Choosing Love Over Fear
Do you ever feel like no matter how much you do, it’s never enough? Many high-achieving women make choices out of fear—fear of judgment, failure, or not being "good enough." But what if you started choosing from love instead? This blog explores how shifting from fear-based decisions to intentional, self-honoring choices can help you feel more calm, confident, and present in your life.
How to Overcome Mom Guilt for Working: 3 Strategies for Balancing Career and Family
Feeling guilty about balancing work and motherhood? Discover how to let go of mom guilt, set your own definition of balance, and stop comparing yourself to unrealistic expectations.
The "What-If" Spiral: How to Stop Anxiety from Running Your Life
The "what if" spiral can leave you feeling exhausted, anxious, and out of control. But what if you didn’t have to fix every worry? Discover how to manage uncertainty, stop overthinking, and shift your mindset for a calmer, more confident life.
3 Strategies That Will Help You Share the Mental Load and Responsibility of Running Your Home
Feeling overwhelmed with the mental and physical load of running your household? Discover three actionable strategies to share responsibilities with your partner, reduce frustration, and reignite connection in your relationship.
How to Start Your Day Feeling Calm, Confident, and Present: Tips for Anxious Moms Short on Time
Struggling to start your day feeling calm and in control? Discover how a tailored morning routine can help you manage stress, boost confidence, and set the tone for a balanced, productive day—designed specifically for busy, high-achieving moms like you.
Managing Mom Guilt: Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations and Embracing Imperfection
Struggling with mom guilt? Learn practical mindset shifts to help you manage mom guilt without feeling selfish.
Overcoming the Fear of Judgment: How to Parent Confidently Without Worrying What Others Think
Feeling judged for your parenting choices, especially around the holidays? You’re not alone. In this blog, we’ll explore practical strategies to help you handle criticism, set healthy boundaries, and trust your instincts so you can parent confidently—without worrying about what others think. Perfect for anxious moms struggling with people-pleasing and overthinking.
How to Stop Feeling Like You’re Failing as a Mom: 5 Practical Tips for Perfectionists
Do you constantly feel like you’re failing as a mom, no matter how hard you try? Perfectionism can make motherhood feel overwhelming, leaving you stuck in an exhausting cycle of self-doubt and guilt. In this post, I share five practical tips to help perfectionist moms break free from the pressure to be perfect. Learn how to redefine success, practice self-compassion, set boundaries, and ask for help so you can feel more confident and fulfilled in your role as a mom. You don’t have to do it alone—let’s explore a healthier way together.
From Self-Critical to Self-Compassionate: Practical Solutions to Silence Your Inner Critic for Anxious, Perfectionist Moms
Many moms struggle with self-criticism, feeling inadequate despite their efforts. This blog explores why the inner critic is harmful and offers practical strategies to overcome it. Learn to acknowledge your feelings, practice self-compassion, and focus on progress rather than perfection. Discover how support can accelerate your journey toward confidence and peace of mind. Join me to reclaim your worth and break the cycle of self-doubt!
How to Give Yourself Permission to Rest as an Anxious Mom
The importance of rest in overall parent well-being.
Learning to Love Your Body After Having Kids
Struggling with your postpartum body? Discover how to love your body after baby with these tips for moms.
Thriving Parents, Thriving Kids: Prioritizing Your Well-Being
The importance of prioritizing your well-being as a parent to support the well-being of your children.
7 Tips Managing Stress and Overwhelm for Busy, Perfectionist Parents
Feeling overwhelmed by the stress of parenting and life demands? Discover effective, practical strategies to reduce stress and find balance in the chaos. As a mom, business owner, and therapist, I understand the struggle to manage it all—and how essential it is to make changes for yourself and your family. Explore tips for asking for help, prioritizing tasks, and being present without guilt. Start shifting your mindset and finding relief today!
Understanding and Managing Parental Anxiety: A Deeper Look
Parents often want to “manage anxiety” but aren’t sure what that means. Managing anxiety doesn’t mean getting rid of it; it means shifting your relationship with it. Learn how to approach anxiety more effectively by understanding its role, adjusting your reactions, and reframing beliefs. These practical insights can help you navigate anxiety with less disruption to your life.
The Importance of Connection Before Implementing Change in Life and Parenting
Discover the “connect before redirect” philosophy, inspired by Dr. Dan Siegel, for parenting and personal growth. This approach encourages meeting yourself and others with empathy and patience, promoting meaningful connections. Whether managing parenting challenges, stress, or self-compassion, learn how to pause, connect, and build a stronger, more resilient mindset for navigating life’s demands.
3 Things to Keep in Mind for People Pleasing Parents
Learn to break free from people-pleasing and perfectionism in parenting so you can be a confident role model for your kids. Discover strategies to address underlying discomfort, understand the instinct to please, and make intentional choices that foster resilience. With small, intentional steps, create the fulfilling parent-child relationship you envision, grounded in confidence, authenticity, and self-acceptance.